Sometimes in our lives, we need to get out of our home and to live in some strange places far away from our homes. Often time it sounds scary, but you can’t resist with not to live. You have to stay in hostels no matter how do you feel about them.
If you take the decision of living in a hostel, your biggest challenge is to face strangers. And you have no idea how to deal with them, you are scared if anybody comes to you and treat you badly, you are worried that people are going to push you around. But don’t worry, it will show you how to survive your hostel life and make it memorable. Here are some of my tips that can help you:
1. Be open – Most of the time, when we get to meet strange people you get closed and so skeptical, but here I am suggesting you to be open and take interest people around you, because most of them also are the same as you are. If you come across like a friendly and open person they will feel relaxed with you and share their ideas with you. Always remember leaders are open. If you are open enough, people feel safe with you and want to hang around with you.
2. Take initiates – Most often we wait for other people to take initiates, but by taking first initiatives, we can become more likable person among the crowd. Take good initiates, it will certainly help you to grow.
3. Try to encourage others – It is good to feel good about ourselves, but if you encourage people to feel good about themselves, they will be more likely to listen to you and they will also encourage you in response. Just remember that’s not going to happen if you just wait and see somebody come over start talking – you need to go ahead; smile and say-HELLO! It makes a big change, trust me.
4. Be patient – At home, you might be too addicted to do things in just the way you like, but if you are staying in a hostel, then situations are quite different and often time you can’t do anything about them, so just keep patience and see if you can have a way out.
5. Keep your things organized- Here is your mom is not taking care of you, so make sure you put all the things in a good manner so that you can easily use them and carry them.
6. Be active, aware and actionable- Remember in hostels you are the only person who is taking care of yourself, so it is very important for you to be active and aware of things around you. You need to be able to take action if something wrong is going on.
I know that taking the decision of living in a hostel is fearful, but if you need to be the person who wants to lead others and want to grow as a person then it is very good opportunity to spend some of your time in a hostel, whether for study reason, travelling reason or any other reason. Just see it in a way that you have an opportunity to explore your deepest aspects of your personality. I promise it will be a great fun activity. So, just go ahead and enjoy your hostel live.For more information click here.
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